Parents have the greatest influence on their children’s decisions after school. Yet many parents feel unsure about how to guide their child’s career choices. Some rely on outdated ideas about jobs and pathways, and with globalisation and rapid technological change creating new roles every year, it is easy to feel overwhelmed.
So, what can parents do to help their children make informed choices about life after school? Here are some practical steps from Skillset:
Start Talking About Jobs and Work
Even if you do not feel confident giving advice about post-school options, you can start conversations about jobs and work early, even in primary school. Try these ideas:
- Share your own career story and the steps you took along the way
- When you meet people in different roles, ask your child what they think about that job. What would be the best and hardest parts?
- Encourage your child to talk to family and friends about their jobs. What do they do? What skills do they need?
These conversations help children understand the variety of jobs out there and the skills needed for each.
Try Different Activities
Hands-on experience is one of the best ways for young people to discover what they enjoy and where their strengths lie. Encourage your child to:
- Help with tasks at home, like cooking or gardening
- Join school or community activities, such as clubs or volunteering at events
- If they are old enough, take on a part-time job or volunteer for a cause they care about
These experiences build skills and confidence and help your child learn what feels right for them.
Do Some Career Research
Once you have had some initial conversations, explore resources together. These websites offer helpful information about careers and pathways:
- My Future Career – Tools and resources to explore career options
- YourCareer – Information from the National Careers Institute
- Good Careers Guide – A searchable database of job descriptions, skills, and training options
Speak to a Careers Adviser
A qualified careers adviser can provide personalised guidance. They can:
- Assess your child’s interests and abilities
- Share useful career resources
- Identify learning, training, and work opportunities
- Help your child make decisions that suit their goals and circumstances
Career conversations do not have to be complicated. By starting early, encouraging exploration, and seeking advice when needed, you can help your child feel confident about their future.
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